HOW TO

transcend

Discover DESIRE UNTAMED

April 11 - 27, 2025

a happy marriage

SARAH RUHL’s

SARAH RUHL’S

transcend

HOW TO

a happy marriage

Discover
DESIRE UNTAMED

April 11 - 27, 2025

The cast of RENT featuring Jeremy Allen Crawford (Mark) and Carter Crosby (Roger), along with Artistic Director Sean Elias, join CBS News WJZ Baltimore in the studio to discuss the critically acclaimed and award-winning production on stage now at Iron Crow Theatre.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY WILSON FREEMAN

Overflowing with subversive enchantment, Sarah Ruhl’s How to Transcend a Happy Marriage takes you on a wild ride through the uncharted territories of love and desire, polyamory, throuples, and matrimony. This provocative play combines absurd domestic comedy with erotic magical realism, unraveling the blurred lines between strangers, friends, and lovers.

At a dinner party deep in the wilds of New Jersey, George, and her husband talk with a fellow married couple and find themselves captivated by stories of a younger polyamorous woman who hunts her own meat. Intrigued, they invite the mysterious woman and her two live-in boyfriends to a New Year’s Eve party—setting off a chain of events, including an unexpected orgy, that will forever change their lives.

Sarah Ruhl’s exploration of human connection, desire, and love challenges and delights in equal measure. Don’t miss this unforgettable voyage into the complexities of modern relationships and the magic of Ruhl’s unique storytelling.

“celebrated for…blurring boundaries between myth and reality, poetry and prose and even animal and human.”

— The New York Times

“Sarah Ruhl tackles the polyamorous in her brilliant new play…finds love, beauty, and music.

— The Wrap

Featuring fast and funny dialogue…operating on all cylinders.”

— The Hollywood Reporter

“…reinvigorate[d] with welcome bursts of theatricality…make it, again, feel genuinely fresh.

— MD Theatre Guide

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“A thrilling, stunningly realized,
fully inhabited production. Baltimore small theatre at its best!”

— WYPR

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Skillful direction…Revitalized…This production has moments that you simply should not miss.”

— DC Theatre Arts

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“…an overwhelming swirl of light, action, sound, and emotion, it should be a discordant cacophony, but instead it’s gorgeous chaos.

— BroadwayWorld Baltimore

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“…purchase tickets to see this wonderful theatrical production that will make you laugh, cry and reflect. Do it today!”

— TheatreBloom

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GEORGE

VALERIE DOWDLE

SHE / HER

PAUL

JONAS CONNORS-GREY+

HE / HIM

JANE

ASIA-LIGÉ ARNOLD+

SHE / HER

MICHAEL

GABE FREMUTH

HE / HIM

PIP

FRANKIE MARSH

SHE / THEY

DAVID

SAM FROMKIN

HE / HIM

FREDDIE

JAKE STIBBE+

HE / HIM

JENNA

GAB RYAN

SHE / THEY

+ denotes Iron Crow Theatre Resident Artist
* denotes Member, Actors’ Equity Association. The professional union for actors and stage managers in the United States.

CREATIVE TEAM


WRITTEN BY

SARAH RUHL

SHE / HER

DIRECTOR

ANN TURIANO*+

SHE / HER

ASST. DIRECTOR/ ASST. STAGE MANAGER / DRAMATURG

MELISSA FRELEICH

SHE / HER

STAGE MANAGER

ALEX PERRY

THEY / THEM

COSTUME DESIGN

KITT CRESCENZO

SHE / HER

SET DESIGN

JAMES RAYMOND

HE / HIM

LIGHTING DESIGN

JANINE VREATT+

SHE / HER

PROPS DESIGN

ANNE HAMMONTREE

SHE / HER

TECHNICAL DIRECTOR

BRUCE KAPPLIN+

HE / HIM

SOUND DESIGN / A1

ZACH SEXTON+

HE / HIM

SAFER SPACES TRAINING / INTIMACY DIRECTOR

SHAWNA POTTER+

SHE / HER

+ denotes Iron Crow Theatre Resident Artist
* denotes Member, Actors’ Equity Association. The professional union for actors and stage managers in the United States.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY WILSON FREEMAN

This is where I’m supposed to offer thoughtful context about the piece you’re about to see, followed by something that ties the work to the present moment in history and leaves you, dear reader, feeling hopeful in a vague yet unsustainable way.

But I’m tired of writing that kind of sh*t and you’re probably tired of reading it.

We’re all fucking tired right now.

In place of “joy as an act of resistance”, may I offer survival itself as an act of resistance?

Because somewhere underneath the many forms of exhaustion we’re collectively experiencing–spiritual, physical, romantic, administrative, moral, digital, existential–there’s a beating animal heart inside all of us that keeps us eating/sleeping/shitting/fucking for another day.

And look at us go! Out of bed, dressed, and anticipating some shared-yet-transitory moment of humanity in a darkened room. Some of us here to offer, others here to receive it.

Breathing together in the dark will always feel intimate to me. As will the rehearsal room. Both distinctly holy & human, which has been my refrain when describing this play.

In a time when I firmly believe that WE SHOULD ALL KNOW LESS ABOUT EACH OTHER (e.g. Elon Musk’s botched dick implant or whatever fresh horrors are atop our feeds by the time this goes to print), I present to you a play about intimacy. Turns out, we can’t avoid it! As the playwright herself says, “We all exist in relation to the world, our partners, the human race.”

I’m grateful to Iron Crow for creating a space where an ambitious process like this is possible for local artists.

To Sarah Ruhl for her brave and ever-evolving work. And her poetry!

To a cast & crew who fearlessly threw themselves into this process.

To the ancients, whose faith in theatre brought the gods, (wo)man, and wine together for something truly transcendent.

And as of late, I’m especially grateful for any opportunity that reminds me we are all wild at heart.

May we be blessed with good sex and strong triangles.

Ann Turiano
Director, How to Transcend a Happy Marriage

“To the ancients, whose faith in theatre brought the gods, (wo)man, and wine together for something truly transcendent.”

— ANN TURIANO
Director, How to Transcend a Happy Marriage

“In the Land of Gods and Monsters / I was an angel lookin’ to get
fucked hard”

–LANA DEL RAY

RUN TIME:
Approximately 2 hours including a 15-minute intermission.

CONTENT:
The production includes sexual themes, irreverent jokes including those of a religious nature, simulated violence, and mentions of war, slavery, disease, and death. The production design includes the use of loud sound effects, haze, the use of props that sound similar to that of a gunshot, and bright, strobing, reflective lighting.

 

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SUNDAY, JANUARY 21

Iron Crow Theatre is honored to partner with Free State Justice, Maryland’s leading state-based non-profit, working to improve the lives of Maryland’s LGBTQ+ communities through free legal services, legislative advocacy, and education and outreach programs. Join us during pre-show for a special conversation on decriminalizing HIV with special guest Delegate Kris Fair in partnership with FreeState Justice.

FRIDAY, JANUARY 26

This date marks the 28th anniversary of the first performance of RENT at New York Theatre Workshop which is also the day after Jonathan Larson tragically passed away. Join us for a Seasons of Love Sing-Along after the show to honor Jonathan Larson’s legacy. Lyrics provided.

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 4

This date marks what would have been Jonathan Larson’s 64th birthday. Join us pre-show for a special Happy Birthday Sing-Along for Jonathan and after the show for one final Seasons of Love Sing-Along to honor Jonathan Larson’s legacy and the closing night of RENT. Lyrics provided.

THE NATIONAL AIDS MEMORIAL

Iron Crow Theatre is honored to have received special permission to display a block of the National AIDS Quilt in our lobby and to be a supporter of the National AIDS Memorial’s efforts to bring the Quilt to communities across the United States to raise greater awareness and education about HIV/AIDS and to remember those lost to the AIDS pandemic.

WHOSE STREETS? OUR STREETS!”: NYC 1980 - 2000

New York City streets were turbulent and often violent as residents responded to the AIDS epidemic and social changes in their city, as well as to national and international developments. What began as part of our production’s dramaturgical research has now been brought to life in the Baltimore Theatre Project’s gallery through a partnership with the Rochester Institute of Technology. 37 photographers documented ordinary New Yorkers as they rallied, marched, and demonstrated. The exhibition was curated by Tamar W. Carroll, Meg Handler, Mike Kamber, and Josh Meltzer.